Shy child .Childhood fears
Child Development / / April 14, 2016
How to overcome communication difficulties
Kid embarrassed at the sight of strangers and fear of unfamiliar places.He eschews even the playground acquaintances.That lead him to the garden can be no question: if a kindergarten teacher, surrounded by children, he starts to cry.What should parents do?
- not hurry to sound the alarm.Children under three years are often afraid of things - of the dark, heights, water, vibrant movement around.Unnatural just a complete lack of fear.There are children - participants of the games, and there are children - observers.Do not pull out the last of the angle in which they are blocked: because you are depriving your baby a sense of security.
- Sometimes the kid just need to be alone, with enthusiasm to paint, sculpt, look at the pictures.A child should not always be on the move and communicate with their peers.If it is, if desired, fluent with outsiders, playing with other children when he wants to, he has no reason to worry.The child develops "abruptly": 2 years shy kid to three can be a real tomboy, and vice versa.
- Do not be too strict.Especially the sin fathers who rarely see an heir and hurry to bestow upon him the whole complex of educational measures at the weekend.Not only girls, but boys need their own serving of love, affection, hugs, and kisses.Otherwise one risks becoming a son in this bully to recoup their peers, or slaughtered klutz.
- You know what the situation may scare the kid.Prepare for them in advance.
- not sound toddler fears ( "On the site a lot of children, I know what you're afraid of, let's rotate back").It is better to give him a choice: "At the site a lot of kids, if you want, you can now turn back."It is possible that the desire to play in the sandbox will overcome, and he wins his shyness.
- Do not be overly suspicious.If your speech to the child, constantly heard the refrain "Do not hurt anyone Kids" baby feel it, and will continue to treat others as attackers.
- not avoid fears.Many parents, wanting to spare the child from frightening sensations, eliminate the very situation that breeds fear.This is a major mistake.To get rid of the discomfort, the child should be in a frightening situation and learn how to overcome your fear.With your course, help.
- protect him, the child trust - a fragile thing.Therefore, do not force the baby to overcome their own fear and certainly not make fun of him if he was scared.Even if for the sake of your baby and try to "correct", he will never learn to trust the outside world entirely.A child should always feel your support and protection.
- Do not rush.Children are much easier to overcome your fear, if the parents are slowly and gradually introduce him to the situation, which may cause a panic.
- Train sociability.Sooner or later the child will have to give "in society": a garden, or a section of a circle.To accustom the baby to the noisy companies, more often on the playgrounds, meet with other children.Make a collective picture "kindergarten colleagues": the evening will be able to discuss with your child companions.
- Children are born open to the world, curious and ready to learn.Shyness - not an innate property of, and acquired in the process of communication with others.Usually shy come "home" children, which protects from the "world of difficulties."Talk to family and friends that make up your circle of communication.Perhaps they are not aware of your child's fears.Your task - to explain to them all and learn to behave when confronted with children's fears.
- Walk to visit.And call me to visit family himself with young children, who may become your friends skittish "bunny".
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Allow your child to behave the way he wants.The reaction of the baby on a frightening environment may be different.Ask those who are close, ignore the antics of a child.If you allow your child to stay out of the crowd, watch, soon his natural curiosity will overcome shyness, and he will initiate dialogue and join the game.
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