How to wean a child at the hands of
Child Development / / April 09, 2016
wean the child from the hands
How to wean a child from the hands - advice on this subject vary from "let shout" to "no, primotat sling."But what if you and your baby sleep depends on motion sickness?Parents start to think how to wean the baby to fall asleep in his arms very soon after the birth of a baby.
First is to understand why a child prefers the hands of parents?
1. This gives a sense of confidence and security.For the baby, who recently came to light, hugs adults are air breathing.
2. Being on the hands stimulates the development.Six-month baby is interested in the contents of the shelves.But he Rostik less than a meter, make it to the storehouse of treasure?How to see what Mom cooks on the stove?
3. World around a huge, sometimes frightening, alarming.Therefore, the best solution when the hair dryer, suspicious sounds outside the window, or a neighbor's repair will be asked to handle.
What happens when we wean the child from the hands?He loses the sense of security, limited development and evident lack of security.It is therefore necessary to compensate for the loss.
Compensate for a sense of security to help embrace.Optionally take toddler in his arms, grunting under his considerable weight.Sit on your knees, roll about in bed together, sit down on his haunches and gently hug.Passing by, pat on the head, the crown chmoknu or play "There is a horned goat."Psychologists say that for the normal state of health to each person needs 7-12 hugs a day.
Suggest new methods of development: drawing semolina on a tray, spilling substances shifting cones in a container molded from salt dough and pasta (for the employee's researchers), crumpling paper, active outdoor games.
should not completely ignore attempts baby "break through the defense."He is still too young to understand - my mother was tired, her hard, she has other things to do.
Sometimes during the day, young researchers relentlessly master the surrounding space, and when it's bedtime, look forward to rocking on hands.But there are many reasons why parents want to wean the child from sickness in her arms.To do this it is best to gradually.You can try to oust a new ritual.For example, after a bath read a book, light a night light, choose a toy ... and take the handle.Slightly shaking, lay down next to the crumbs on her mother's big bed.Hug him a massage, caress, kiss and just lie down.If breastfeeding is maintained, there will be a little easier to transfer the baby to sleep another way, because the mother's breast is near.
Some parents use the swing on the pillow as an intermediate stage of withdrawal, or pre-purchase a cot with a pendulum mechanism.
Choosing a way of weaning, it is important to remember that a child's needs have to be met in full, as much as possible.Therefore, if the child refuses the offered alternatives - take it on the handle.And let the idea that he would soon be in adulthood, learn to appreciate the time you hold the baby in her arms.