The child is 10 , 11 , 12 months
Child Development Calendar / / March 27, 2016
your baby is not just a rose.By his first birthday, he begins to position itself as an independent, although still very dependent on the mother's identity.He has learned to share his mother's body and begins to understand that the mother feels and what - he is.
no secret that many mums it is difficult to believe that yesterday's lump already has its own desires, tastes, emotions.They are still so delicate that they are easy to crush, trample, to prohibit.Making do "how to", "right", "how to", "like I said,» ...
child at this time sensitive to the bans, sometimes it can be seen even regress in their behavior: thrown to the floor, refusing to go, moves on all fours, or requests a pacifier.In general, protests.And interestingly, in this period, separating itself from the mother, the baby often does not let her on a step!
This is not a whim.The little man really afraid of being without a mother: he understands its "separateness" and afraid of losing forever.Besides, he does not realize that such a time: five minutes and infinity for crumbs year-old is the same.
child 10 months
- In 10 months, the child may, upon request (without display) to perform pre-learned activities.He understands the word "go," "sit," "lie down" and others.
- independent game in the company of other children, if adults will assist.
- independently with the support rises and falls with the low stairs.
- Repeats for adult new syllables uses pseudoword expressing his attitude to what is happening.At this stage it uses to communicate at least 1-2 "lepetnyh words" (such as Lala, a woman), understood in a particular situation.Imitate adults in articulation exercises with tongue games.
- In 10 months child knows how to use a spoon and drink from a cup or feeder cup.Good bites and chew small pieces of solid food.
- comfortable with the planting pot.
- At the request of the adult may choose between the toys, garments, dishes, determining that more like it, and that is less than or generally unacceptable.Develop this skill crumbs - it is vital for the formation of his psyche.
In 10 months, the child willingly perform various tasks, and do come up with a multitude of "important" things.If you want to in the future your child was as enterprising, this behavior should be encouraged.And so the crumbs do not have a sense of helplessness and resentment because it is not selected on the shoulder (which is how often is), my mother should promptly come to the rescue.And very much praise for the little that the child was still able to do himself.
independence kid also should be encouraged.A child, for example, be the duties with which he was quite unable to cope.You set the table - toddler puts a spoon.Going for a walk - he chooses what to wear tights or sweater: red or blue.In addition, this approach pipsqueak knows what awaits him in the near future - a dinner, a walk or reading fairy tales.
always predictable environment more comfortable for the child, and to guess that in the mind of my mother, he can not.No wonder the protest from the baby, when he suddenly has to quit the favorite ball and go to the table? ...
child 11 months
- By 11 months child can wake up with a support, to rise, to sit down,walk with or independently, climb and descend stairs at a low.
- Give your child a small box with the ball.Then several times to open and close it, showing the ball.Then remove the ball and give your child an empty box.Scarce notice the absence of the ball and will be surprised to look at you.
- Perhaps purposefully ring a bell, use a comb, drink from a cup, feed himself with a spoon, bring the request of light objects, handles and wash the face.
- Give your child cubes, show how to build a turret of them, and then destroy it.The child himself puts the pinnacle of cubes to assemble and disassemble a pyramid of rings with large holes.
- way to make generalizations: shows dolls, cars, blocks, balls, part of his body.Distinguishes objects by shape (cubes, blocks, balls).
- Manifest first attempts to plot the game: lead, nourish, lulls doll.Leafs and sees bright pictures in the book.
- He loves to play with children, but refers to different children selectively.
- Performs first simple instructions, understand the word "no" very well-versed in the room.
- the end of the year, says the "special" words that are understandable only to him and his mother, "bang" - the fall, "fa" - hat, etc .;can pronounce some words from their understanding of the objective relations.There are first simplified words: "kitty", "aw-aw", "let", "buy".Use at least 3-5 lepetnyh words understood in a particular situation.
child 12 months
In the first year of life the tiny creatures waiting for crises weight - transitions.This identification of themselves as being separate from the mother, and the recognition itself, the search for his own "I".To tell the truth, every new mastered the movement - is a kind of a leap!And some children even these "mini-crisis" cause "glitch" in their behavior.Thus, for example, has only just learned to crawl or walk the child is naughty for a while longer than normal and worse sleeps ...
Psychologists say that the only time a person hysteria resolved - is the age of about one year.Firstly, the words to explain what he wants, the kid does not know yet.Secondly, it is hysterical - the usual way of behavior for him.
Only recently, it was worth crying baby, zadrygat handles-legs, and my mother just came to find out what happened.Soothing, comforting, he served as desired.Now the child was older, but the way to my mother's to attract attention using the same.
What to do with the hysteria?First of all, do not expect that it will pass by itself.Cursing, yelling, slapping, trying to reason - it is useless.I still do not hear or understand.Just take your hands, push to yourself, shake, calm.
If tantrum happened in the street, took home.In this situation it is important to remember that the kid himself is not able to calm down.His muscle tone is too high for this, it will only be harder to strain and scream.
crisis first year
main problem any crisis, and the first year - especially in the fact that parents do not have time to regroup after the rapid development of the beloved child.Yesterday a child lying quietly in bed, and was satisfied with rattles, but today he woke up interest in the recorder buttons, drugs and hammer.
and outside trouble - always so chistyulya now climbs into a puddle, buries itself in the sand, rides on fallen leaves ... At the table toddler tries awkwardly, but act independently spoon, recoat in porridge and desperate cries when Mom wants to take feeding theirarms.
first reaction of adults - to stop this disgrace.But these "whims" and "bad behavior", the desire to grab everything and show independence while clumsy - no signs of bad temper and spoiled, that must be addressed.This is the natural expression of maturation stages.Each of them is something very clear, understandable and important for the baby.
Suppress them easily - we, the adults, are much stronger.But then we must be prepared for the fact that after ten years we get deadhead and mumbled that the rest of his (or our) will hold on to the mother's skirt, unable and unwilling to live independently, to show the character and strength of will.
will take crisis first year are:
- «maladjusted" - stubborn, overbearing, disobedience, requiring special attention;
- sharp increase in new forms of behavior, attempts to independent action and resolute refusal to perform the necessary procedures;
- hypersensitivity to comments - in response to be hurt, resentment, aggression;
- increased moodiness;
- contradictory behavior: the kid can ask for help and then abandon it.
problems of the second half
- permanent harmful behaviors;
- nonstop masturbation;
- inability to imitate sounds and gestures;
- general apathy;
- no favorite toys and activities;
- permanent absence of signs of dissatisfaction when faced with strangers.
the presence of at least one of these symptoms you should contact a specialist!
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