Child Development / / March 25, 2016
Stachy young mother
have newly- young mother so many troubles!Generally, they pass over time.It is very important to you now is the support of loved ones.
behind the meeting of the hospital and grandparents went home, the young father tomorrow to get up early for work, and this is your first time with the baby alone.You would think that nothing is something you do not understand and have no idea how to deal with such a tiny little man.
first fear of a young mother: "He was crying, I'm doing something wrong?»
Believe me, the reasons for weeping in plenty of crumbs and without your "wrong" action.Crying newborn baby - it was his only opportunity to apply your signal.Thus, he says that is hungry, sleepy or uncomfortable.Check to see if the diaper is dry, if the kid-friendly.Maybe it is hot or stuffy ... Very soon you will begin to understand it like no other.
most common cause of crying in the first few months of life - intestinal colic.They suffer 70% of children up to three months.During feeding, or immediately after your baby suddenly starts to draw in the legs to the tummy, red and screaming?Do not forget to spread before feeding crumbs on his stomach.Put your baby on his tummy warm diaper.
Some babies cry before going to sleep.Blame immature nervous system.If you know that the child is fed, changed clothes, it is not hot and not cold, intermittent crying (1-3 minutes) before going to sleep, and sometimes in a shallow sleep should not bother you, especially in the first three months of his life.
immaturity of the nervous system, weak inhibitory processes - the main cause of newborn crying out for a walk.From changes in temperature, lighting, furnishings overexcited toddler, while crying, and then he falls asleep.
Know: this is normal and will pass with time.Take the crumbs on his hands, offer him the breast.
second fear young mother: "I have it pamper»
kid really need attention.Your warmth, smell and heartbeat calm the crumbs, he got used to them.Most take the baby in her arms, feeding practices on demand, gently talk to him.Even if the baby is bottle-fed, be sure to feed him in his arms.Do not follow the advice to "give the baby crying" - it depresses the nervous system of the newborn and hampers its development.
Know: if the crumb is not lacking her mother's affection, it quickly develops.Soon you will receive the first prize - a conscious smile toddler, addressed to his beloved mother!
third fear a young mother: "I'm afraid to bathe crumbs!»
Fear not "hold" the child's inherent in most new mothers .It is especially evident in the bathtub while bathing baby.Remember instincts win: No mother will drop her baby.By the way, even when bathing the baby slip beneath the water, nothing terrible will happen: up to three months, the child instinctively holds his breath.And later - just tilt the crumbs head down at an angle of 45 degrees, and he cleared his throat easily get inside the liquid.While bathing water sometimes gets into the baby's ears.Do not worry, everything is fixable.Roll of cotton wool and dab flagellum ears.
Know: child feels your anxiety and confusion, and therefore it uncomfortable.Try to calm down, and then with time swimming become an exiting game.
Nightmare young mother: "Nightmare»
Several times a night you get up to hear how the baby is breathing.In the morning afraid to fall asleep while feeding the baby and crush.During the day you think it may fall out of the crib.In the evening - he choke milk and drown ... So seen the maternal instinct.Now you are tense as a string.Against the background of hormonal fluctuations, general fatigue, reduced emotional tone and then unaccountable anxiety attacks happen.The main thing - relax.
Know: is a normal condition for a young mother.Later, you'll be afraid that the child falls and bumps, then - experience that he stays in school, after - what later came home ... Remember how many times your mother told you: "I'm afraid for you."Now it's your turn to worry.
9 helpful tips for young mothers
- not need to boil the water for swimming and add it disinfectants, if you use centralized water supply.
- kid will not become "bowlegged" without tight swaddling.
- Use disposable diapers do not harm the child.The temperature therein is the same as in the diaper gauze.It is only necessary to change the time of fullness and potyazhelevshy diaper.
- child does not freeze in the room with the air temperature above 20 degrees, if it weighs more than 3.5 kg.
- transparent allocation of the child's nose - this is not necessarily cold.If a child expresses concern, it is not reduced appetite, then it should not be treated.Make an unscheduled cleaning.
- Using the sling without violating the posture of the child.His posture to carry physiological, and even recommend a sling today orthopedists.
- ryukzaka- use of "Kangaroo" will not hurt the baby if it is provided with a horizontal load distribution as when worn on the hands.
- application of enemas, vapor tubes and mechanical stimuli in intestinal colic can not hurt the psyche and affect sexual orientation.
- not take to heart the advice «seasoned» mothers.Your child is unique.What suits neighbor kid may not like you.
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