Silence - gold, or what he does not need to know?
Love / / August 12, 2017
Wisdom women often is the ability to remain silent while.To remain silent and that to give yourself time to think about how best to solve a particular problem.And in the relationship with a man silent, at times, not just gold, it is - the only way to save the love and respect.With this in mind, let's look at some of the most common situations in which the female wisdom - the only option to save the peace and quiet.
you still think about her ex
Never, under any circumstances, do not discuss with her lover, his past relationships.Neither in a positive nor in a negative way.In the first case, it may be unjustified jealousy in the second, possibly male solidarity and the emergence of thoughts like: "Here's a woman, eh!She and me can say such nasty things. "Be kept.Your past relationships - your experience from which, whatever it was, you made important life lessons.Respect it.And let your ex-boyfriend is worthy memories, leave them to themselves.And if you can not wait to indulge in nostalgia, call your girlfriend.
you do not like it
best friend It happens.And quite often.What to do in this case?Oddly enough, nothing.Behave with dignity, show "English" restraint.Any extremes: excessive courtesy, or, conversely, ostentatious rejection can poison a relationship with your beloved.A friend, whom your boyfriend, perhaps together went to kindergarten and spent a lot of time on the football field and discos, perhaps also necessary to him as you do.Do not make a choice between you.This is not just stupid, but not far-sighted.Be feminine wisdom at the time, and say nothing then maybe your partner will himself to talk about what you do not like.After discussing all and find a compromise solution, you can perfectly coexist with periodically appearing unpleasant to you man.
between you and your young man appeared abyss - his mother
Maybe you're out of luck, and you got a mama's boy.His mother calls often, he meekly listened to her instructions.At the first opportunity in a hurry to it, even if this is not required.What to do in this case?To begin to observe: how is your relationship suffer from such maternal obsession.Behave gently restrained with understanding.In the end, and you have a mother, which is dear to you as much.Be in possession of negativity and criticism and watch, watch, watch.There was dissatisfaction - express it very gently, without irritation.And if your criticism is met by a young man of your storm of negative emotions, the time has come - go from observation to conversations.Discuss all delicately tell us that you do not like.But remember: sometimes, "mother-son" relationship can be so strong that they break them nobody can.If you do not like it, and your young person always leaves his mother in priority then perhaps you are not with your friend on the way.Mama's Boy - this is not a phenomenon, it is diagnosed.