Why men are often mistaken with the choice of a gift?
Women's Opinion / / April 10, 2016
Probably every woman know the feeling of frustration when her man solemnly handing her a gift, and there ... a frightening kind of crackling stun gun, a perfume with a sharp heavy scent, luxurious bathrobe, exactly 2 sizes larger or smaller than your real size.And hurt shining donor difficult, but hide the frustration is sometimes even harder.But you so often opaque hinted at the vending little thing, defiantly felt faint in awe before the glittering shop windows of jewelry stores, or by being zealous hostess complained that to be completely happy in the kitchen lacking only a new harvester, bread machine, dishwasher.
Men have an amazing ability - listening to the cautious hints of his girlfriend, they try so hard to guess, please, please, but they brought a present is often not so.Why is this happening?
- Men do not understand hints.If the communication with representatives of your gender you just throw vskolz phrase you like gizmos, or praise some miracle of technology, you can be confident in the outcome.On the eve of the celebration in your honor, a true friend will search the whole town and buy the coveted gift, and even instruct friends about your preferences.With men this will not work - even the fattest hint does not reach their consciousness.Oh so arranged their brain - the stronger sex is straightforward and agree to act only on precise and clear instructions.
- men perceive women twittering differently, sometimes it seems that in our speech they hear a buzzing dimensional occasionally fixating on individual words.Here it is necessary to be cautious.The main thing - do not forget that in the long instruction on what not to buy, they will remember only the verb "buy" and that those items whose presence is undesirable in your home you are trying to prevent.
- man loves his lady and very afraid for her health and safety.These alarms generate frightening kind gifts - shockers, pepper sprays and other arsenal of the young fighter.And explain that the mere sight of these items scare you to fainting and even touch them no desire - it is impossible.It remains only to put a "weapon" in an elegant bag and console themselves with the fact that someday gift will help save your life.
Can you teach a partner to give the "right" gifts?Most likely, to cope with the problem alone will not work.To re require intelligent loyal friend.That she would have to assume the role of mentor, again and again patiently pointing to the admitted oversight, teaching and explaining what went wrong.
What if the husband is hopeless?Even if all the efforts in the direction of donor activities in the right direction were in vain, there is a way.It is not to be the same without a gift?Little secret most amicable family became established tradition of jointly selecting "surprise".On this day, the spouse will only have to open unlimited credit - and believe me, spend a significant amount for them is much easier than to once again note your disappointment.
Do ideal man there?
Yes, about 1% learned to give the "right" gifts.How do they do it?Long-term observations, reflections and the use of painful tricks have helped to achieve the desired result.Do you know how they do it?Memorize your favorite thing a secret from you buying and vibrantly hide until the day of H. It is true that sometimes there are covers - if, before the official date is still far away, and the woman can change their delight at the diametrically opposite view.
Text: Faith Guler