Best friend : Is it all rosy ?
Women's Opinion / / August 12, 2017
you - a woman, an individual with their goals, dreams and plans.And how many women you are looking for a mate.Over time you will find your soul mate, but other than that in my life stay or come to one or two best friends.Why did they tell you?Why in our lives need a friend?
Friends - people who you love and who feel sincere sympathy because you are interested with them.
According to Freud's theory, each of us has a number of male and female.The balance of this should not be violated.If a woman begins to dominate men's quality, she subconsciously choose more feminine personages in girlfriend.And vice versa.As a rule, we have been friends for something: we are friends against harsh boss, we're friends, because we need this man (in difficult times, he will be able to help), we are friends, because this friend optimist in life and it is necessary to returnpaints and joy in difficult minute.I have a friend who you trust all my secrets, secrets.It is a native person.You're comfortable with it and well.
But then you start to notice that your family started quarrels, scandals, accusations by the husband and discontent you.And the reason this all - your best friend.What to do?Delete it from your life?But she's your girlfriend, and you do not want to lose her.
try to understand why best friend can cause turmoil in personal relationships.
- For you it is a friend.And your man sees it, especially a woman.
- It is free and is not burdened with family problems.And because it has more time to look after themselves and their appearance than you.Women who know how to look after themselves, and are not burdened with problems, always attracted to men.
- You are so similar to his girlfriend that your man start to involve in it the qualities for which he loved you.
- Your friend fell in love with your man.And listening to your numerous stories about his character and demeanor, knows how to please him better.
- She's just jealous of you.Do you have a man of your dreams, and it's not lucky in his personal life.
- In this way she can avenge you for the long-standing grievances.
history of life
Tatiana met the man of her dreams.They had a magnificent wedding and unforgettable honeymoon.And then began the everyday work and everyday life.Tatiana was the best friend of Oksana, with whom they were friends from a young age.Oksana is very happy for the happiness and Tatiana enthusiastically listened to all the details of private life of his girlfriend.Tatiana always invited Oksana to visit.They (the husband, Tatyana and Oksana) organized many friendly gatherings.This went on for 6 months, while Tatiana has not started to notice that her husband loses interest in it.Oksana somehow start to drift.As a result, it became clear that Oksana started dating my husband and friends.
course, not all friends are.But if you do not want your girlfriend has caused the collapse of the family relations, to abide by certain rules.
- Your personal life should be in first place, while the second - your girlfriend.
- If you want to meet with a friend, do it on neutral territory (in a cafe, restaurant, sports section, in the movie).
- Do not tell her all the details of your personal life.
Remember that best friend - a friend for you.The man in it will see an ordinary woman.Therefore, do not contribute to a hazardous communication and do not provoke your man.