"World of tanks" - a killer of family relations , or as I weaned her husband from this rubbish
Women's Opinion / / April 06, 2016
So we "captured"!So much so that a month after it appeared the ill-fated "World of tanks" in the computer husband, I wanted to strangle this anger of the man she loved, and smash your computer.It was the desire to shout to the whole world that I feel bad and lonely, that I can not change my life.
And there was a feeling that you need to change a lot with the advent of this game.Thousands of women in the world suffer from this game intoxicated men!They are bewitched, ready to sit for days and destroy enemies!And we begin to fight, and then give up, and sometimes even divorce, but it is not for me!
No, I do not mind games, but when the head of a man there is nothing left, except tanks, missions and similar nonsense - this is too much!When he came home, instead of you gentle hugs and kisses, forced towatch a broad back, sitting at the monitor - it becomes annoying.
When instead of the usual "how are you?", To listen to a monologue about how many missions completed and how many tanks were damaged, it would be desirable to howl.For someone playing in this stuff, the reality simply disappears.He has no time, no time to sleep, he does not see children fighting and did not hear the cat screeching, which are trying to learn to dive in the bathroom, he does not care, because it is in a different reality.
But I'm here now and want to return back the clock to the time when we were in the house of the tanks!In good problem persists.The conversation with her husband about what family life was disintegrating, to anything new has not led.After that, I confess, in order to save the relationship and family, I was engaged in what is known as "sabotage."Trying
first - unsuccessful
Why have not I done!First, I took seemed to me, the easiest way - to remove from a computer game with all its folders, files and patches.We had to make eyes large and round, justifying and proving that I'm innocent, it is a failure of the system.For the first time my husband believed me, but quickly solved the problem.After a couple of hours a best friend, a "crazy tanker", install the game again.After his departure, the favorite, as a child, I was glad to new opportunities in the game, and the voice from the voice Okhlobystin, priperchennaya obscenities and vulgar jokes, the whole evening "pleased" neighbors.
Wasting no time, I again under the guise of an inability to work with the computer, worked with avast program.And how little time I was glad that the game stopped running!Later I realized how strong man's friendship!Comrade - tanker again came to the rescue, but not alone, with six liters of beer.After his departure tipsy husband with a malicious grin, said that while it was 100% friendly visit consultation about removing all the damage in the game.
Trying to second - even worse
At this my imagination dried up, so I decided to use the old proven techniques.I stopped to talk to her husband, which he more "left in the game."I do not get the results I stopped to cook, but my resourceful tanker has decided on its own problem.Over time, it became clear that he now eats at nearby cafes and pizzerias.By counting the amount of losses from visiting such places, I again became the stove, but still resenting neglect by her husband, excommunicated from his body, and he began to sleep in another room.
you think it helped?Where there.This only exacerbated the situation.The internal grievances and discontent reached its peak, and the question to be or not to be a family?We had time to think about it.I tried various aggressive methods of struggle for the eradication of the house hated tanks, realized that lost ...
Trying to third - success!
However, there still remains the last option, I called it "the cure love."I thought about everything I radically changed tactics.I decided to become her husband for more interesting than "virtual tanchiki"!
First, I changed the hair color and hair, bought a new dress.Dress up, I defiantly went to meet with friends.Returning later, I realized that I had chosen the right direction.
husband from the doorway made a picky interrogation and finally noticed me.Surprisingly, he was jealous!Why not!This is what I sought.
After a night showdown I was different: tender and gentle, attentive and warning, and cries and attacks changed on Twitter affectionate.Our relationship is like back in the flower-candy period.The husband saw me in a new light, and interest in the tanks is gradually faded away.
now my favorite time to time to play your favorite "World of tanks".At times, when all things are made, the children and myself, my wife, happy are busy with their chores, he sits down at the computer, but it is not the same obsession.
How am I mistaken in thinking that tantrums and cries can solve the problem!
Now I can say with confidence that swear and quarrel sometimes useful to refresh the stagnant emotions and relationships.But this does not necessarily when on earth means, proven for centuries.It can solve any problem, and his name is - Love.