As with dignity to treat male infidelity ?
Women's Opinion / / March 28, 2016
Men's betrayal - a common phenomenon.Men go to it for various reasons.But the women's reaction in the event of exposure chosen - one.It is especially difficult this situation is tolerated, when a man and woman are married.After a long explanation of the relationship, scandals and excuses in 80% of cases it ends in divorce.However, whether or not so categorically respond to men's "weakness"?
- fact that male infidelity certainly unpleasant.As a rule, tears, accusations and hysteria are inevitable.That's just this reaction is quite predictable and not very effective in resolving the problem.The man would not long endure and listen to the severity inflicted injury.Even conscious of his guilt, he was just gone.
- long, boring lectures about how hard experience betrayal of a loved one, what brings suffering betrayal - is not a way out.Constant reproaches and remind man of his offense did not help to make understanding and comfort in the relationship.Man can not long bear the burden of the past and throwing everything will step into the future, but with another woman.
- Before you rush into the accusations, try to understand why your man went to treason.Analyze their behavior and attitude to the chosen one.Perhaps you yourself have pushed him to such an act.
- No scandals, tears and emotions.Quiet conversation with a man will help to understand the motives of his infidelity.Do not try to blame and find out who is to blame, focus on how to further build relationships.Due to women's self-restraint and self-control dialogue will be more productive.As a result, together you can make the right decision.
- Look to the future!What has already been done, should remain in the past.A man after discovering his infidelity thinks that now with the understanding companion exhausted.Surprise him!Try to keep all the wrongs and move your relationship to a new level of confidence.To help in this can a joint vacation, change of scenery, new experiences.
After the exposure of a man trying to dodge in every way and to resolve the conflict.It is important to capture the behavior of the desire to solve the problem and save the relationship.Do not deprive your chosen chance.He certainly was guilty.But your impulsive reaction could provoke even more blunders on his part.Remember, happy and harmonious relations largely depend on the woman and her ability to forgive man's weakness.
Text: Katherine Pchelnikova